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Tyler has published more than 25 books, from personal development texts to actionable journaling tools to university textbooks and of course Team Building.
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The Business that Cared - A Leader's Guide to Team Building and Engagement Using Multiple Intelligences

The Business that Cared About People - A Leader's Guide to Team Building and Engagement Using Multiple Intelligences This timely book is a story and tool kit that enables managers to better lead teams. The book contains Tyler's work on Multiple Intelligence Quotient and how to apply it in your work place to help inspire high performing teams. Further, there is a plethora (I like that word) of ice breakers, debriefs, energizers, and more.

Virtually Engaged Team Building Activities - A Manager's Guide to Increasing Remote Engagement with over 101 Team Building Activities

For over three decades Tyler has been studying and working with virtual & hybrid teams.
(More like 40 years if you include the global acid rain project he was part of in 1987). This book includes a couple theoretical team building constructs he uses to help increase remote team peak performance as well as 101 different activities that you can easily implement with your remote team.
It is a quick read with lots of tools for your next virtual meet-up.

Coffee Talk: Business Edition

The resounding success of "Coffee Talk" and "Coffee Talk 2"
is now answered with "Coffee Talk - Business Edition" The same intimate and interactive team-building game you have come to love with all new questions focused on the world of "work"! Same stellar impact you expect and a great team building activity for your next retreat!
This fun book is filled with great open ended questions that you can use to instigate great conversation and get-to-know-you learning outcomes for your team regardless of geographic location.
It's super fun.

Catchin' The Carrot: A Personal Strategic Plan

This personal planning workbook is for those who strive to achieve more in life. You will quickly and easily gain a better understanding of where you are, where you will be and how to get there. This personal planning book is based on the proven Strategic Planning Process used by many of the world’s most successful corporations. Why not see what it can do for you and your success?

Livin’ Life Large™ - Simple Actions that Create Success

Tyler's most requested keynote presentation.
Perfect for opening and injecting energy into your next event.
Event highlight for groups of 50 to 8000.
Explore ways to create a more balanced lifestyle personally and professionally through good tools like: Energy Flows Where Attention Goes (motivation), Feel a bit Off Kilter (resilience), and Leading Legacies (mentoring) and Rome Wasn't Built in a Day (team engagement).

Coffee Talk: Project Special Day

This father-and-daughter team holds double black belts in the “Art of the Special Day.” Breton (age 9) and Tyler (age 42) have put together three of their favourite games that will get you started on maxing-out your adventure and enrich and deepen your most special relationship between a parent and child.

Team Building Activities - Communication, Leadership, Planning, Problem Solving, & Team Building (Lesson Plans)

This is a collection of five eBooks from the Team Building Events and Activities for Managers T.E.A.M Series. It contains no less than two experiential learning sessions for each of the five topic areas. Each session is connected to best fit learning styles to help you choose the best activities for your team.

14 Minute Mentor: The Philosopher and the Professor Business Book Series

14-Minute Mentor is a much needed and simple answer to a problem plaguing too many businesses. How to retain and engage critical employees in this very competitive job market is the subject of many sleepless nights for business leaders. The Philosopher and Professor: 14-Minute Mentor, a collaboration between Industrial Psychologist Dr. Bill Howatt and Business Consultant Tyler Hayden presents a solution to this very problem.

Coming Soon: The Nature of Team Building

New Book Coming Soon.
Well kinda soon...

Downloadable Team Building Tools Available - Kindle or Paperback and at Team Building School

As an industry thought leader in the gamification of team development and learning, Tyler has had the opportunity to build some amazingly impactful tools, from card games to apps for you and your teams. Now, with a simple click of the button you can download and use them almost instantly with your team.

Team Building 20: A Team Building Card Game

What is this? 20 Questions - Team Building Edition is a great team builder that drives home a specific learning outcome (i.e. Leadership, Customer Service, etc.) It can be done both in a virtual community or with your tribe live and in person. You can even edit and add cards that with custom questions for your group. This event is great for exploring content specific knowledge about a topic area in a fun and informal way.

Customer Experience 20: A Team Building Card Game

What is this? 20 Questions - Customer Experience 20 Edition is a great team builder that drives home a specific learning outcome (i.e. Leadership, Customer Service, etc.) This is the more edition because our customers loved the first version so much they wanted new questions -- so here it is! It can be done both in a virtual community or with your tribe live and in person. You can even edit and add cards that with custom questions for your group. This event is great for exploring content specific knowledge about a topic area in a fun and informal way.

Leadership 20: A Team Building Card Game

What is this? 20 Questions - Leadership 20 Edition is a great team builder that drives home a specific learning outcome (i.e. Leadership, Customer Service, etc.) This is the more edition because our customers loved the first version so much they wanted new questions -- so here it is! It can be done both in a virtual community or with your tribe live and in person. You can even edit and add cards that with custom questions for your group. This event is great for exploring content specific knowledge about a topic area in a fun and informal way.

More Team Building 20: A Team Bulding Card Game

What is this? 20 Questions - More Team Building Edition is a great team builder that drives home a specific learning outcome (i.e. Leadership, Customer Service, etc.) This is the more edition because our customers loved the first version so much they wanted new questions -- so here it is! It can be done both in a virtual community or with your tribe live and in person. You can even edit and add cards that with custom questions for your group. This event is great for exploring content specific knowledge about a topic area in a fun and informal way.

Flash Back: A Team Building Game: Team Building Activities

Flash Back: A Team Building Game is an interactive and fun team building activity that helps teams to develop interpersonal relationships. This great team building activity is a fantastic ice breaker game that promotes communication and dialogue between team members. The activity is a series of open ended card questions that have learners share "flash backs" to years gone past. It's a great way to get to know the history of those you work and play with.

Which One? & Why?: A Team Building Game: A Team Building Activity

Which One? & Why? is a quick team building game. It consists of a series of cards that have two things to choose from (i.e. travel to the Alps or Cuba). Players will choose from the presented choices and give a quick explanation of why they chose what they chose. It is a great team building game to encourage conversation, think creatively and develop fun interpersonal relationships between your team.

If I Were in Charge of the World: A Team Building Game

This card game is a great team building activity that helps open your group to some creative ideas, laughs and great icebreaker fun. Team members will take turns finishing open ended statements about what they would do related to that topic if they were in charge of the world (i.e. If I were in charge of the world, I would abolish...) The statements range from policy setting to super fun.

Coffee Talk: A Nano Sized Team Building Game: A Team Building Activity

This intimate and interactive team-building game will have you and your team getting to know one another with the flip of a page. This is the premiere way to get your groups talking and a real hit at your next meeting, retreat or road trip! The book is bilingual in French and English.

Coffee Talk Two: Another Nano Sized Team Building Game

The resounding success of "Coffee Talk" was answered with "Coffee Talk 2!" The same intimate and interactive team-building game you have come to love with all new questions! Same stellar impact you expect and a great team building activity for your next retreat!

Downloadable Team Building Templates, How to Videos & More

As an industry thought leader in the gamification of team development and learning, Tyler has had the opportunity to build some amazingly impactful tools, and now with a simple click of the button you can download and use them almost instantly with your team.

Commonalities: A Team Building Activity

Commonalities is a great game for events where you have multiple groups sitting in pods (aka at separate tables or breakout rooms). It helps to identify and create common bonds & connections between your team. You can lead it yourself or use the included explainer video featuring Tyler Hayden.

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If I Were in Charge of the World: A Team Building Activity

If I Were in Charge of the World is a great get to know you activity and ice breaker that is no sweat, fun and a bit out of the box. Teams will discover new things about people they have known "forever" and get a great introduction to people they're meeting for the very "first time". You can lead it yourself or use the included explainer video featuring Tyler Hayden.

4 Corners : A Team Building Activity

4 Corners is a great game for events where you want to have a mixer and ice breaker that gets people moving and meeting each other. Teams will discover new things about people they have known "forever" and get a great introduction to people they're meeting for the very "first time". You can lead it yourself or use the included explainer video featuring Tyler Hayden.

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Scavenger Hunter: A Team Bulding Activity

Scavenger Hunter is a great game for events where you have multiple groups sitting in pods (aka at separate tables or breakout rooms). It is a fun way to get people working together, solving a problem & getting focused on a common goal. You can lead it yourself or use the included explainer video featuring Tyler Hayden.

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If I Were in Charge of the World: A Team Building Activity

Coffee Talk is a great way to get teams talking and sharing one-on-one or is small cohorts. It is built so that you can easily update the information and program the questions to reflect your custom learning needs. It helps to create opportunities for connection, laughter and team bonding. You can lead it yourself or use the included explainer video featuring Tyler Hayden.

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4 Corners : A Team Building Activity

People Poker has multiple editions that help you connect your people together by winning for getting the very best poker hand - but the only way you can win is by strategically finding people who help make your cards have increased value... its a great way to connect people and find unique things out about them, gamifiy and strategize the efforts of the individual player and have a ton of fun as a team. You can lead it yourself or use the included explainer video featuring Tyler Hayden.

Smarty Party: A Team Building Game

Smarty Party is a question and answer tool that takes your team through multiple rounds and allows you to add points for correct answers (and subtract too for incorrect ones).
The slide deck is fully customizable so you can add in your questions as they relate to multiple topic areas.
It is s fun tool that you can easily update your information into - and the fresh and vibrant colours make the for a lively splash at your next event!
There are two different "sizes" of slide decks so you can plan a longer or shorter version based on the time you have to invest.

TP Confessions: A Team Building Game

TP Confessions originated with a real life roll of toilet paper. It was a go to for so many years in trainers tool kits for organizing debriefs and a great get-to-know-you activity. Now you can have an electronic version that you can use in remote, hybrid and in person events. Learners choose a square on the play board and they get delivered their "number" of TP squares. For each square they get to perform a task (i.e. tell us one thing we don't know about you for every "square" you received, or one idea for rebranding for each square, etc.) It's a fun and simple way to generate great dialogue.

Tic Tac Toe: A Learning Tool

Tic Tac Toe was a game that you likely played on long car rides ... in addition to that you can apply it to help gamify your next training or team event. This event was built so that you can easily add a fun tool to your remote or hybrid events. The tool allows you to incentivize teams for making correct answers, sharing ideas, etc - the sky is the limit. This tool takes very little explanation on how to play - because it's a classic.

So You Want to be a Hundredaire: A Team Building Activity

Hundredaire is a great customizable tool that allows you to update the slide deck to represent information that is important to your team. You can then gamify the data by facilitating a game show like experience for your team. We show you how to customize the slide deck and give you the tools that you need to score the points and share the questions. Included is a short and long version so you can use it at a quick scrum or longer team event. This tool also has strategy, collaboration and risk as a core component to the game play.

All In: A Team Building Activity

All in is a great customizable tool that allows you to update the slide deck to represent survey data that is important to you. You can then gamify the data by facilitating a game show like experience for your team. We show you how to customize the slide deck and give you the tools that you need to score the points and share the questions. Included is a short and long version so you can use it at a quick scrum or longer team event.

House of Cards: A Team Building Activity

House of Cards is a great tool for quizzing your team. It blends a game show feel with the acquisition of points for knowledge. It can be used to add a bit of gamification to your course or training evaluations and outcomes. Or you can custom design it to deliver a great game that quizzes your team on trivia about the team (aka "The Game of Us")

Magic Two Ball: A Team Building Activity

Magic 2 Ball is a great game for events that fit nicely for teams from remote to in person - it's a fabulous tool that allows the team builder the opportunity to create a randomized and unique experience in breaking the ice 🏒 and connecting on a deeper level with your team. It helps to identify and create common bonds & connections between your team & its a metric ton of fun

Two Thumbs Up: A Team Building Activity

Two Thumbs Up is a great game for teams who are looking to get to know each other and desensitize communicating differing opinions. It helps to identify and create common bonds & connections between your team when played for fun, all the while normalizing/developing opportunity for debriefing differing opinions. You can lead it yourself or use the included explainer video featuring Tyler Hayden.

20 Questions Series of Team Building Activities

20 Questions Series of Games are a great tool for events and retreats where you have multiple groups sitting in pods (aka at separate tables or
breakout rooms) or a group of 10 to 12.
The random questions help to keep the responses interesting and often create tangents as teams share similar experience stories. It helps to identify and create common bonds & connections as well as expands your teams knowledge of one another.
You can lead it yourself or use the included explainer video featuring Tyler Hayden.

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Flash Back: A Team Building Activity

Flash Back is a great game for teams who are existing and want to delve a bit deeper into their team relationship by learning more about the history of their team mates. This informal inquiry based activity helps learners share thoughts and stories by prompting them with topical question cards. It helps to identify and create team bonding & reduces barriers between your team as they continue to bond. You can lead it yourself or use the included explainer video featuring Tyler Hayden.

Buzz Games: A Team Building Activity

Buzz Games are a collection of drawing or charades questions that you can easily apply to your next team event. It is a no sweat way of having a bit of physical fun while working together to solve a puzzle. It offers opportunity to hone your non-verbal communication and ideation skills. Also, this tool is easily customized to gamify your specific team learning outcomes. You can lead it yourself or use the included explainer video featuring Tyler Hayden.

I Like You Because ... : A Team Building Activity

I Like You Because ... is a fantastic team bonding activity that helps develop deeper connections through appreciation within a seasoned team. It can be done in person, remotely or hybrid. It helps to facilitate team members creating deeper bonds & connections all the while motivating and appreciating the individual (now and even later when they might need a boost). You can lead it yourself or use the included explainer video featuring Tyler Hayden.

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Which One and Why: A Team Building Activity

Which one and Why? is a great activity for events where you have teams that know each other a bit - but would like to deepen their connections. Its an event that uncovers attitudes, values, and opinions. It can help to identify and create common bonds & connections between your team (and even expose blindspots). You can lead it yourself or use the included explainer video featuring Tyler Hayden.

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March 31, 202613 min read

As we work on the bleeps and bloops of www.rubberchicken.ai (go to this link and you can still sign-up for founders specials) and get it ready to launch I thought it would be a good idea to answer some of the pressing questions I hear on the road about Team Building - So here goes:

1. What are the best team building activities for remote teams?

The Challenge: Remote teams lack the spontaneous connection that in-person work creates. Zoom fatigue is real, and generic icebreakers fall flat.

Rubber Chicken AI’s Answer: Remote team building works best when it’s asynchronous, low-pressure, and genuinely fun—not another mandatory meeting. Our expert Sol 🧊 can help you with this (and more)

Here’s what actually works:

Quick Wins (15 minutes or less):

Async video messages: Use Loom or similar to share quick wins, celebrations, or “fun fact” videos. People watch on their own time—no meeting required.

Themed Slack channels: #random-wins, #pet-pics, #coffee-break-thoughts. Let personality shine without forced participation.

Micro-games: 5-minute Wordle tournaments, quick polls, or rapid-fire coffee talk or trivia in chat. Low stakes, high engagement.

Deeper Connections (30–60 minutes):

Breakout room activities: Small group conversations with a prompt (e.g., “What’s one skill you’d love to learn?”). Rotate groups monthly.

Virtual adventure challenges: Scavenger hunts, escape room experiences, or collaborative online games. Shared challenge = shared win.

Show & Tell sessions: Team members share a hobby, project, or passion. Genuine interest beats forced fun every time.

The Rubber Chicken Principle: Remote doesn’t mean less human. It means intentional, bite-sized, and opt-in. Your team will actually show up when it feels authentic.

2. How do you improve team communication and collaboration?

The Challenge: Teams talk at each other, not with each other. Silos form. Assumptions take over.

Rubber Chicken AI’s Answer: Communication improves when you create psychological safety and clear expectations. Here’s the framework:

Foundation: Psychological Safety

Assume good intent. When conflict arises, ask “help me understand” instead of jumping to judgment.

Make it safe to fail. Celebrate learning from mistakes. Punish silence, not honest effort.

Equal airtime. Introverts and extroverts both need space. Use round-robin sharing or written input before discussions. Talk with So-crates 🏛️ to find great debriefing solutions and ways to engage all learning preferences.

Structure: Clear Protocols

Define decision-making: Who decides what? Consensus, consultative, or directive? Say it out loud.

Establish communication norms: Slack for quick questions, email for decisions, meetings for complex problems. Stick to it. Those SLA's matter.

Create feedback loops: Regular 1:1s, team retros, and pulse surveys. Ask and listen.

Practice: Collaboration Tools

Shared docs: Google Docs or Miro boards for brainstorms, decisions, and documentation. Transparent > siloed.

Async-first meetings: Share agendas and pre-reads 24 hours ahead. Reduce meeting time by 40%.

Debrief rituals: After projects, ask “What went well? What’s next?” Make learning visible.

The Rubber Chicken Principle: Communication isn’t about talking more—it’s about listening better and creating space for all voices. Trust follows clarity. We've built Sage 🦉to help you work through leadership interactions based on individual preferences - helping you gain options to find what sticks.

3. What is the ROI of team building activities?

The Challenge: CFOs ask, “What’s the business case?” You need data, not vibes.

Rubber Chicken AI’s Answer: Team building ROI is real and measurable. Here’s how to prove it:

Quantifiable Metrics:

• Retention: Strong teams have 25–30% lower turnover. At $50k replacement cost per employee, a team of 20 with 2 fewer departures = $100k saved annually.

• Productivity: Engaged teams are 17% more productive (Gallup). For a $2M payroll team, that’s $340k in output gains.

• Absenteeism: Connected teams have 37% lower absenteeism (Harvard). Fewer sick days = more billable hours.

• Quality: Collaborative teams produce fewer errors. Fewer rework cycles = faster delivery.

Qualitative Wins (Still Valuable):

• Psychological safety: Teams that speak up catch problems early. Prevents costly failures.

• Innovation: Diverse perspectives = better ideas. Team building unlocks creative collaboration.

• Culture: Reduced conflict, faster decision-making, better client relationships.

The Math:

• Investment: $5k team building event + 4 hours of time = $8k total cost

• Return: If retention improves by 1 person, you’ve paid for the event 12x over in year one

• Multiplier: Add productivity gains and reduced turnover, and ROI easily hits 300–500%

The Rubber Chicken Principle: Team building isn’t a cost—it’s an investment in human capital. Measure it like you’d measure any other business decision. The data backs you up. This is based on 30 years in the business of Team Engagement - through ups and downs of the economy these numbers still ring true.

4. How to build trust within a team?

The Challenge: Trust is invisible until it’s broken. You can’t mandate it.

Rubber Chicken AI’s Answer: Trust is built through consistency, vulnerability, and follow-through. Here’s the playbook:

Lead by Example:

Be vulnerable: Share a real challenge you’re facing. Ask for help. Show you’re human.

Admit mistakes: When you mess up, own it. No excuses. “Here’s what I learned” beats “here’s why it wasn’t my fault.”

Keep promises: Small commitments matter. If you say you’ll follow up Friday, follow up Friday.

Create Safe Spaces:

Confidentiality: What’s shared in 1:1s stays private. Ever. Build a reputation for discretion.

Opt-in participation: No forced sharing. People open up when they feel safe, not when pressured.

Constructive feedback: Focus on behavior, not character. “That presentation was unclear” beats “You’re not a good speaker.”

Build Rituals:

Regular 1:1s: Consistent, uninterrupted time. Shows you care about them as people, not just workers.

Team retrospectives: “What worked? What didn’t? What’s next?” Honest reflection builds collective trust.

Celebrate wins together: Acknowledge effort and success publicly. Trust grows when people feel valued.

The Rubber Chicken Principle: Trust is a daily practice, not a one-time event. Small, consistent actions beat grand gestures every time. Show up, be honest, follow through. Check in with Trophy 🏆 this rubber chicken is expert at creating rewards, recognitions and appreciation ideas... connection in high gear!

5. What are low-cost or no-cost team building ideas?

The Challenge: Budget is tight. You need impact without breaking the bank.

Rubber Chicken AI’s Answer: The best team building costs little to nothing. It’s about intentionality, not expense. And Lune 🌙 and Sol 🧊have 100's of ideas to help you out!

Zero-Cost Ideas:

Gratitude circles: 10 minutes at the end of the week. Each person shares one thing they appreciated about a teammate. Have another person write the things down on that persons behalf. All the "receiver" can do is say "thank you." Free. Powerful.

Skill-share sessions: Team members teach each other (coding, design, communication, cooking). Builds connection + learning.

Walking meetings: 1:1s or small group conversations while walking. Fresh air, movement, better thinking. For remote teams - have them log in from there "favourite place" outside of the office and do a "show and tell."

Themed Fridays: Casual dress, potluck lunches, or “bring your pet” days. Low cost, high fun.

Async challenges: Writing prompts, photo contests, or trivia in Slack. Engagement without meetings.

Low-Cost Ideas ($50–500):

Potluck team lunch: Everyone brings a dish. Costs $5–10 per person. Or Skip, Door Dash, Ubereats a coffee to each person to arrive for your meeting. Huge connection ROI.

Outdoor activity: Hiking, picnic, container gardening or park cleanup. Entry cost is free; snacks are $50.

Game night: Board games, card games, or online multiplayer. Rental or free. Templated options at Team Building School. Pure fun.

Coffee/tea tasting: Local roaster or tea shop. $3–5 per person. Sensory experience + conversation.

Volunteer together: Local food bank, trail cleanup, or animal shelter. Free or donation-based. Shared purpose = deep connection.

The Rubber Chicken Principle: Connection doesn’t require a budget. The most memorable team moments often cost nothing. Authenticity and attention beat expensive events every time. Talk with Flash ⚡️they have a ton of ideas to energize your team.

6. How do you handle difficult team members or conflict?

The Challenge: Conflict is uncomfortable. Most managers avoid it until it explodes.

Rubber Chicken AI’s Answer: Conflict is normal. How you handle it determines team culture. Here’s the framework:

Prevention (70% of the work):

Clear expectations: Roles, deadlines, decision rights. Ambiguity breeds conflict.

Psychological safety: People speak up early when they feel safe. Nip problems before they grow.

Regular check-ins: 1:1s catch frustration before it becomes resentment.

Early Intervention:

• Assume good intent: “Help me understand your perspective” beats “You’re being difficult.”

Listen first: Let them fully explain. You’ll often find the real issue is different than you thought.

Separate person from behavior: “That comment was dismissive” not “You’re dismissive.”

Direct Conversation:

• Private, calm setting: Never call out conflict publicly.

• Use “I” statements: “I noticed X. The impact was Y. Here’s what I need going forward.”

• Invite their view: “What’s your take on this?” Collaboration beats confrontation.

• Agree on next steps: Clear, specific actions. Follow up.

Escalation (if needed):

• Document patterns: If it’s ongoing, keep records (dates, incidents, impacts).

• Involve HR/leadership: Don’t handle toxic behaviour alone. Get support.

Set boundaries: “This behavior isn’t acceptable. Here’s what changes, or here are the consequences.”

The Rubber Chicken Principle: Early, honest conversations prevent big problems. Difficult people often become your best team members once they feel heard and respected. In the full version of our Rubber Chicken AI we will have summits and a community to help you with that from our experts and community.

7. What makes a high-performing team?

The Challenge: You can feel when a team is firing on all cylinders, but what’s actually happening?

Rubber Chicken AI’s Answer: High-performing teams share five core traits. Build these, and everything else follows:

1. Clear Purpose

• Everyone knows why they’re doing the work, not just what.

• Connected to something bigger than a paycheck.

• Aligned on shared goals.

2. Psychological Safety

• People speak up, take risks, and admit mistakes without fear.

• Diverse perspectives are welcomed, not shut down.

• Failure is a learning opportunity, not a career threat.

3. Trust & Accountability

• People deliver on commitments. Consistently.

• When someone drops the ball, they own it. No blame-shifting.

• Trust is earned through follow-through.

4. Diverse Perspectives

• Different backgrounds, thinking styles, and expertise.

• Conflict is healthy—it leads to better decisions.

• Everyone’s voice matters, regardless of rank.

5. Continuous Learning

• Feedback is frequent, specific, and growth-focused.

• Mistakes are debriefed and shared.

• Skills are developed intentionally.

The Rubber Chicken Principle: High performance isn’t about individual superstars—it’s about collective chemistry. Build trust, clarity, and psychological safety, and performance follows naturally. The beauty of having a "Team Building Department" in your pocket is you have access to our six specialists to help suggest ideas and activations to support your actions.

8. How to increase employee engagement and retention?

The Challenge: People leave jobs for better opportunities. How do you keep your best people?

Rubber Chicken AI’s Answer: Engagement and retention are directly tied to how valued people feel. Here’s the roadmap:

Foundation: Meaningful Work

Connect to purpose: Help people see how their work matters.

Autonomy: Give them space to do their best work. Micromanagement kills engagement.

Growth opportunity: Clear path to develop skills and advance. Stagnation breeds departure.

Recognition & Rewards (Specific, Meaningful, Timely):

Specific: “You nailed that client presentation” beats “great job.”

• Meaningful: Tailor to the person. Some want public shout-outs; others prefer quiet gratitude.

Timely: Recognition within days of the action. Delayed praise loses impact.

• Non-cash preferred: Experiences, flexibility, learning opportunities often matter more than bonuses.

Investment in People:

1:1 relationships: Regular, genuine check-ins. Show you care about their growth.

Learning budget: Courses, conferences, certifications. Invest in their future.

Flexibility: Remote options, flexible hours, sabbaticals. Life happens.

Culture & Belonging:

Psychological safety: People stay where they feel safe being themselves.

Community: Strong peer relationships. People leave managers, not companies.

Values alignment: Shared beliefs and behaviors. Culture fit matters.

The Math:

• Replacing an employee costs 50–200% of their salary

• Engaged employees are 59% less likely to leave

• Small investments in recognition and growth pay massive dividends

The Rubber Chicken Principle: People don’t leave companies—they leave situations where they don’t feel valued. Engagement is an active practice, not a one-time initiative. A lot of this is in the wheelhouse of Flash ⚡️- they will have your back.

9. What are the best icebreakers and energizers for meetings?

The Challenge: Forced icebreakers feel cringey. Meetings drag. Energy dies.

Rubber Chicken AI’s Answer: The best icebreakers are quick, optional, and genuinely fun—not awkward or time-wasting.

5-Minute Icebreakers (Meeting Start):

Two truths and a goal: Each person shares 3 statements. Others guess which is a goal they have. Quick, personal, low-pressure.

Coffee Talk questions: Pair people up. 2 minutes per question (“What’s your hidden talent?” “Best advice you’ve ever received?”). Rotate partners.

Emoji check-in: Everyone picks an emoji that matches their mood. Quick share. Humanizes the room.

Which one and Why?: “Coffee or tea?” “Beach or mountains?” “Morning or night?” Quick, low-stakes, reveals personality.

10-Minute Energizers (Mid-Meeting):

Stretch break: Stand up, shake it out, do a quick yoga pose. Movement resets energy.

Quick game: Wordle, coffee talk, or Wiki Challenge. 5 minutes, high engagement, mental reset.

Story share: “Tell us about a win this week in 60 seconds.” Celebration + energy boost.

• Improv game: “Yes, and…” where each person adds to a story. Silly, creative, bonding. This one is double edged...so be careful.

15-Minute Energizers (Longer Meetings):

Breakout room activity: Small group conversations with a prompt. Deeper connection.

Virtual scavenger hunt: “Find something blue, something that makes you happy, something from nature.” Show and tell.

Collaborative challenge: Build something together (digital art, story, solution). Teamwork + fun.

The Rubber Chicken Principle: Icebreakers work when they’re authentic, optional, and quick. Skip the cringey stuff. Let people opt in. Keep energy high and meetings short. Definitely chat with Sol 🧊they are a library of ideas! Literally!

10. How do you measure team culture and employee satisfaction?

The Challenge: Culture is fuzzy. How do you measure something you can’t touch?

Rubber Chicken AI’s Answer: Culture is measurable. You just need the right metrics and regular check-ins.

Quantitative Metrics:

Engagement survey scores: Annual or quarterly pulse surveys (1–5 scale). Track trends over time.

Retention rate: Percentage of team staying year-over-year. Target: 85%+ for healthy culture.

Absenteeism: Sick days, tardiness, turnover. High absence signals culture problems.

eNPS (Employee Net Promoter Score): “Would you recommend this company to a friend?” 0–10 scale. Benchmark: 30+ is healthy.

Participation rates: Attendance at optional events, volunteer activities, training. Engagement indicator.

Qualitative Metrics:

• 1:1 feedback: Regular conversations. What are people saying? What themes emerge?

Exit and Stay interviews: Why are people leaving (staying)? Patterns reveal culture gaps and opportunities.

Peer feedback: Anonymous 360 reviews. How do teammates rate each other? And how do you use this developmentally.

Open-ended survey questions: “What’s one thing we should change?” “What do you love about working here?” Real insights.

Simple Measurement Framework:

1. Baseline: Measure once. Establish a starting point.

2. Quarterly check-ins: Pulse survey (5 questions, 2 minutes). Track movement.

3. Annual deep dive: Full survey + focus groups. Understand why scores moved.

4. Action: Share results. Make visible changes. Show you listened.

Red Flags (Culture Warning Signs):

• Declining eNPS or engagement scores

• Rising turnover or absenteeism

• Low participation in team events

• Negative feedback in 1:1s or exit interviews

• Silos or conflict between departments

The Rubber Chicken Principle: You can’t improve what you don’t measure. Regular, honest feedback loops create accountability and show people you care about their experience. Culture measurement is culture building.

Be sure to sign up and be a founder at www.rubberchicken.ai


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Tyler Hayden CSP, HoF BRM

Tyler Hayden CSP, HoF is a Canadian Hall of Fame motivational speaker and team building expert. Tyler has written over 25 books on teams and team building.

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